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Oversharing Detector

Tick what applies to what you're about to post or say. Podge checks for consent issues, emotional state, audience, and reaction-seeking before you commit.

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Overshare check

Think about a specific post, message, or thing you're about to say.

What this means

This tool checks seven oversharing markers and adjusts for the medium you're posting to. Public posts with multiple markers are high risk. Private messages with no markers are fine.

Formula used

Count of triggered warning markers plus a medium multiplier for public or wide audiences.

Worked example

If you're posting publicly while emotional, including someone else's private detail, and hoping for a reaction — that's four or more markers plus a public medium multiplier. Overshare. A private message to one friend with no other markers — zero score. Fine.

Common questions

What counts as oversharing?
Sharing more personal, intimate, or third-party information than the audience or context warrants — particularly when driven by emotion, reaction-seeking, or breach of someone else's confidence.

Why does the medium matter?
A private message to one trusted person carries very different risk than a public post. The same content can be fine in one context and an overshare in another, so the tool adjusts the score based on audience size.

Plain-English summary

Tick what applies to get a verdict on whether what you're about to share crosses into oversharing territory.

This section translates the result into a short, direct takeaway rather than leaving the page at a bare number.

Disclaimer: This tool flags patterns associated with oversharing. It cannot know the full context of your situation or relationships.

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How to tell if you're oversharing — and what to do instead

Strong emotions, wide audiences, and other people's private information are the three main oversharing risks. Here's how they interact.

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