Signal check

Digital Body Language

When the action was small but the subtext was not, let Podge read the room.

Start here

Pick the pressure, then take the first route.

This turns the hub into a decision path: choose the closest situation, then open the verdict that should come first.

Recommended first verdict

I reacted to something my ex posted Life

Ex Engagement Like Detector

Start here when the question is whether that like, comment, or DM sent a louder signal than you intended.

Next move Score the echo, then decide if the file is still open or you want it closed.
Open Ex Engagement Like Detector

Situation read

A Technofatty situation hub for reading the unspoken signals in how people behave online — reactions, timing, visibility, and what gets left unsaid.

Online behaviour leaves a data trail
A like is not just a like. Timing, who can see it, how public the reaction was, and whether you were first all combine into a signal that others are reading whether you meant to send it or not.

The score is about amplitude, not character
These tools do not judge motives. They measure the likely amplitude of the signal you just sent — how far it travelled, who received it, and what story it supports.

Knowing the score does not mean the score is wrong
Sometimes the number is high and you stand by the action. Sometimes it is a useful reality check. Either way, having the data is better than guessing.

Use the tools

Pick the closest pressure point

Ex Engagement Like Detector
Score the Ex Echo Risk of reacting to your ex's engagement, wedding, or relationship milestone on social media.

Verdict cards

The tools in this situation

Each one gives a score, a reason, and a copyable takeaway when the awkwardness needs a cleaner shape.

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Ex Engagement Like Detector

Score the Ex Echo Risk of reacting to your ex's engagement, wedding, or relationship milestone on social media.

Open verdict