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Ex Engagement Like Detector

Score the Ex Echo Risk of reacting to your ex's engagement, wedding, or relationship milestone on social media.

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Scores the amplitude of your reaction across time, visibility, and emotional stakes. No judgement, just data.

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What is Ex Echo Risk?
A score from 0–100 measuring how loudly your reaction registered across time, visibility, and emotional stakes.

What pushes the score highest?
DMing them directly, reacting to a baby announcement within 3 months, being one of the first to react, and having mutual friends who can see it.

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Disclaimer: This is a situational gauge based on structured inputs. It does not account for the full context of individual relationships. The score is a structured estimate, not a verdict on your character.

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