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Relationships · Verdict tool

Am I Overextended Socially?

Score whether social commitments exceed available energy and recovery time.

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What this means

The recommendation focuses on optional cancellations when obligations cannot move.

Formula used

Pressure = events*5 - free evenings*6 + obligations*4 + (10-energy)*5, with sleep and notification modifiers.

Worked example

6 events, 0 free evenings, energy 3, poor sleep, 2 obligations, and notification dread scores 100.

Common questions

Can I use this internationally?
Yes. Currency selectors are display-only unless a tool explicitly says otherwise; no currency conversion is performed.

How exact is the result?
It follows the published Technofatty formula for this tool, but real life can add fees, rules, timing quirks, and context.

Plain-English summary

Sometimes being kind means not attending everything.

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Disclaimer: This calculator gives a general estimate only. It is not financial, legal, medical, employment, or professional advice.

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