Relationships · Verdict tool
Should I Go to This Party?
Balance energy, obligation, relationship importance, enjoyment, travel, cost, and exit options.
What this means
This instrument starts blank so it does not judge a made-up example before you have entered your own situation.
Formula used
Score = enjoyment x3 + importance x2 + obligation x1.5 + energy x2 - travel/cost penalties + exit adjustment.
Worked example
Energy 3, importance 8, obligation 7, enjoyment 5, 90 minutes travel, £20 cost, and early exit scores about 54.
Common questions
Can I use this internationally?
Yes. Currency selectors are display-only unless a tool explicitly says otherwise; no currency conversion is performed.
How exact is the result?
It follows the published Technofatty formula for this tool, but real life can add fees, rules, timing quirks, and context.
Plain-English summary
Fill in the questions on the left to generate a verdict card.
This section translates the result into a short, direct takeaway rather than leaving the page at a bare number.
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